5 reasons someone looks annoying when they are ex

 Some people get along well with their exes, and some don't. Like cats and mice, you can never get along even though you haven't met. Even though when I was dating, I rarely fought until I got angry. At most only mutually silent for a few days. After that, hopefully because there are always those who give in. But when they broke up, the argument got bigger. Whatever is done is always the attention of the ex. To have to close communication gaps so as not to spoil one's own mood.

Why are exes so annoying?

1. Relationships that did not end well.

The end of a relationship that is said to be not as smooth as it used to be. In the past, they were open to each other to welcome love, but when they broke up it was the opposite. There are no eye-catching eyes and words that are comfortable to hear. Instead, there are mistakes that are brought up. Relationships that do not end well always cause the hopes he once held dear to slowly collapse. The collapse of this hope has made it unacceptable until now. Until the residue of hope finally made him an annoying figure.

2. After a long time together, so they feel the right to someone's life

During the moment of dating, you get to know each other which makes each other open up. Good and bad begin to emerge as you become more comfortable sharing. But after breaking up, the process of getting to know each other stopped. Those who really wanted to end, now don't look back anymore, but the former can't do the same.

He keeps reflecting on the past and thinks he still has the right to your life. Every time you do something, your ex is always itching to interfere. So that makes it annoying.

3. There is jealousy when you now have a new trailer. While the former has not moved on completely

Someone's jealousy can cause that person to be annoying. Like the ex. Because this saw that you had moved on, it made him nag on his social media. Sadly, he often acts like a victim, as if you were the one who left first. Even though it is clear that he himself has not been able to come to terms with the past, which should have been closed tightly.

4. Because excessive love ends up running aground halfway. Your outlook changes on him. Whatever is done will still be wrong in his eyes.

Everything is bad if done excessively. Likewise in relationships, loving and caring too deeply will inevitably make someone's heart break. This is the reason that your ex is so annoying. The end of a relationship is a moment where his perspective immediately changes because he loves you too quietly. He who is very dear, now becomes annoying and hates. Until the end, whatever he did was always wrong in his eyes. The understanding that is done has nothing to do with it.

5. It could be that your ex wants to prove that his life is happier in your absence. But instead it makes me uncomfortable

Apart from jealousy, a sense of prestige can also turn someone into a bitch. Like your ex, because of his prestige, he becomes obsessed with telling the world that he's okay. But her way really makes a rishi. One of them, always compare his life before and after a relationship with you.